Ladies and gents, I love lingerie. Something about slipping into some nice lingerie just alters my mood in a very fun way. I know a lot of women who groan when lingerie is mentioned, and argue that they prefer their sensible cotton undies to my love of lace and silk. That's their prerogative. I think it's important to wear what you're comfortable in...but I also love wearing what makes me feel sexy and slightly wicked. If you're wearing something that is chafing or cutting off your circulation you're definitely not going to enjoy wearing it, and it will probably make you feel decidedly unsexy. Also, I think the lingerie you wear should, first and foremost, be for you.
For today, however, we are going to do lingerie the Ruby way.
Believe it or not, I prefer to wear vintage inspired things...and if I had my own place to lounge around in, I would do so in vintage inspired slips and dressing gowns/robes. I think I was born in the wrong era, because these things make me feel extremely feminine and sexy.
Next, I like to sport lingerie that might fit into a category labeled 'classy'. This goes against everything most people who knew me growing up think about me, I'm sure. During my teen years, and most of my 20s, I was what you might call a 'Punk Rock Gurl'. My wardrobe consisted of jeans, bondage pants, band tshirts, and converse. My hair changed a multitude of colors thanks to Manic Panic. Now, I still listen to the same music and have one of my facial piercings still...and a bit of manic panic still boosts my red...but my tastes in clothes and lingerie have changed vastly.
I like to call this "Getting Into Character"...I was always a theater geek, and part of the appeal to theater, for me, was the costumes. It's fun. EdenFantasys has a great selection.
This is my getting down to business outfit....hee hee.
Whatever your style, make it uniquely your own and have fun with it. Nothing is sexier than someone feeling good about themselves and having fun!